Returning home after deployment can be a major adjustment. The shift to civilian routines can affect your body, your relationships and your sense of purpose. It’s normal for moving from a structured, mission-driven environment to civilian life to feel disorienting at times. Every service member’s experience is unique, and support is available at every stage. Whether you find yourself struggling to reconnect with family, adjust to your home station, or find your next mission, you don’t have to do it alone.
Know when to reach out.
Some stress after military service is normal. However, if challenges linger or start to affect your daily life, it may be time to get help. Signs that you’re struggling can include:
- Trouble sleeping, frequent nightmares or constant fatigue
- Ongoing pain or injuries that don’t seem to heal
- Avoiding places or people you once enjoyed
- Drinking or using drugs more often than intended
- Feeling hopeless, detached, or quick to anger
Find the right kind of support.
There are several organizations and resources if you think you need to talk with someone or get support. Here are a few places to start.
Crisis hotlines
Veterans and their families can access 24-hour confidential support through the Veterans Crisis Line. To reach the help line, call 988 and press 1, or text 838255.
You can also reach free, confidential help by texting SERVE for English and SERVICIO for Spanish to 741741. This will connect you with trained volunteers at the Crisis Text Line.
Emergency care from the VA
Veterans in crisis can get up to 30 days of inpatient or crisis residential care and 90 days of follow-up outpatient care at no cost from the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. The VA also will cover the cost of transportation to care, and you don’t have to be enrolled in VA services to receive free care.
Ongoing support
If you aren’t in crisis but need long-term support, you have several options:
- Check-In: Connect with a licensed mental health provider and find wellness programs and community groups for veterans, service members, caregivers and their families.
- Military OneSource: Get counseling, financial guidance and help with relocation or family issues. Phone: 1-800-342-9647.
- Vets4Warriors: Get 24-hour, confidential support from fellow service members and veterans. They can also connect you with services for your physical and mental health, as well as financial support. Phone: 1-855-838-8255.
- Objective Zero: Download the mobile app and find support from trained veteran volunteers focused on connection, community and wellness.
- Onward Ops: Find a personal sponsor and community resources that can help you and your family adjust to civilian life, including job opportunities, educational training and help registering for VA benefits.
- ROGER: Get free virtual counseling and crisis intervention specifically designed for veterans and service members. Many of the counselors have served in the military or come from military families. Phone: 984-223-5721
- Stop Soldier Suicide: Find free, confidential and personalized care, virtual mental health counseling and safety planning for you and your family members. You can also call 984-207-3260.
It’s OK to need help.
Seeking support is a sign of strength. Service members are trained to look out for their teammates, and we should take just as good care of ourselves as we do for our military family. Recognizing when you’re struggling and asking for help early is important, and you don’t have to worry or be embarrassed because all these resources are confidential and will respect your privacy.
Staying balanced for the long term
Keeping your mental, physical and financial health in balance supports readiness in every part of life. Staying active, maintaining healthy routines, connecting regularly with friends or fellow veterans, and making time to plan for financial goals will all help relieve stress and make it easier to ease back into civilian life. Small steps build long-term resilience.
You are not alone.
Taking the first step toward support can feel hard and a little scary but know that you are never alone.
Help is there if you need it. You just have to ask.